Too Much Complain… Not Good To You And Your Health

Everyone has something special he/she was made to become. You have a special talent given to you by your Maker. You have choice and ability to choose whatever you want and lifestyle to live. You pen down your goals or objectives and actually go for it, you acquire it and then live it. You don’t have to complain about your living lifestyle which you know you choose yourself. No one forced you to live that path of life. You once love it, so you ought to be happy with it.

Complaining all the time won’t do you any good, and doing that often will not only make you look stupid but wicked too. Even when you have a good heart but complains all the time, people around you won’t like to associate with you, they’ll always see you as someone who lack manners and good attitude too.

Grumbling or nagging all the time will make you insatiable or unappeasable to any situation you find yourself thereby making people around you to believe and see you as a sadist, a never satisfied kind of human and an unkind nature of human being. And this kind of behavior towards oneself is very dangerous to health. Good healthy living needs good, peaceful and free mind to always look healthy. Eating good food coupled with the way you eat it will never show any good result on you when you complain all the time. You’ll only look thin and ill if care isn’t taken, even though you’re the one providing for the family.

Never you complain in that marriage of yours because you actually fall into it. Marriage isn’t made for kids but for adults, and before you came together as husband and wife, you’ve once known each other for some couple of months or years. You don’t have to complain now that he/she is this or that. Whatever it is, accept it with open heart, after all you’re not the only one in marriage that has problems; everyone does including the singles.

Life isn’t that rosy and so is everything in it. Know it that if you find fault in everything that comes your way, then nothing will ever look good to you, and that’ll always make you unhappy which may affect your relationship or association with people around you.

Furthermore, it’s very much better to dislike hate in everything that matters to your existence and choose, and practice love in any condition life throws at you. Remember I once told you that life isn’t that rosy; don’t expect anything to be easy, there must be ups and downs but whatever, don’t complain too much, because the more you complain, the more your problem increases thereby turning you into a sadist and a lonely being which may affect your looks/health.

Love❤️ you.

Joy cares!


Sex is not all about making children. Do well to be a different woman to ww1, don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you lose influence over your husband, you have lost your womanhood.

Always be part of your husband’s plans. Don’t have too many children, you wanna sell them? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime. When a man is sexually satisfied he is emotionally stable. Stop saying: is it food? Yes sex is food! As a wife, try to invest in your spirituality so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as a prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life.

Don’t allow you husband to provide all of your needs, he is not a money making machine, iron sharpened iron, try to reciprocate, you are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically, and thin. You are a builder, wise women build their home. Women needs wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen and when to be quite.

Love your husband with all your heart. Never tell him: “if not because of my children’, remember you have known him before the arrival of the children. Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back, don’t be too holy to kiss in the public.

Be romantic, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy you are happy in your marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown always.

Feel good when you hold him. Always keep fit legardless of your age or body, and to a woman who does all these, a man is duty bound to pamper, pray, cherish, love, support her, and finally make her feel like a woman.

Things to do to keep your love life/marriage intact.

1. Call him by pet name.

2. Allow him to exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in sober moments with apology to explain why you behaved in manner that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say “I am sorry” whenever you offend him and insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

7. Honour his mother.

8. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his bag and help to undress him.

9. Women always stay by your man.

10. Prepare his meals always and on time.